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I have a rule of attraction because I’m a lazy guy and like to avoid doing more work than necessary. The other night I went out to one of my favorite clubs in the city.You see to her, a guy who is not affected by her moods or whatever she is doing, is not the type of guy she was used to dealing with. But if you actually want to date her, you should step up and use the shit test as an opportunity to prove that you can handle her… And I’ve found having or growing an Alpha Attitude takes care of that for us, this is when and if we know what being Alpha really is.How Women Use Shit Tests and Why It’s A Good Thing for You. Building an attraction which can work with lots of women and lasts a lifetime because less work with women means more time to enjoy BEING with them. When a woman flakes out on us, of course we can learn from it. Learn what signs to look for so we can avoid the women who are more likely to flake. I’ve found after that they get so subtle and blend in to the relationship quite well. Now that we’ve cleared up the difference between game playing and actually testing and how they might cause a woman to flake out on us, let’s clear up one more misconception on how to respond to a “flaker ” – the Alpha way.Most assume the “Alpha” responds with brute force tactics – or in this case “ignoring” her as a punishment.I took it as a huge sign she was not a woman I wanted in my life. Tons of guys were asking what to do, how to do it, and wanted to know the exact reasons why women flake out.
This girl I’m talking about began rattling off dates to hook up again. She was acting quite desperate to make her flaking up to me. Some even begged her not to flake out on again and how it pissed them off. “Some PUA’s advise the man to ignore the shit test (by changing the subject) – and that’s good advice if you only want to get into her pants.She reached out to a friend and wouldn’t you know it, that friend needed help that night.She suddenly feels bloated and is thinking about sex, and now doesn’t want that to happen so she flakes out.I’d say “punishing her” fails her test ( if it actually was one ) because she’ll only learn this from it…
You can’t handle her every changing emotions and when things happen which are beyond her control, your first move is to disappear.The early tests are done so we inadvertently disqualify ourselves saving her time and energy with a dead end date.